想想看，站在两个57岁儿女的角度，出轨的父亲和出轨的母亲，直到92岁都不觉得自己有错，直到了解到被伤害的那一方有人自杀，才好歹有了点悔意。
就这，还是自己最亲近的父亲母亲，你觉得你好好表现，就能赢得其他人的关注吗？错了，除非那些关注你的人是因为某些原因爱上你，把你当情人爱，把你当永远成不了的自己爱，把你当儿子爱，把你当女儿爱，把你当父亲爱，把你当母亲爱，反正就是不爱你原本的样子。主角玛蒂亚的父亲在和情人一起的时候表现近乎完美，柔情，慷慨，善良，认为自己爱儿子
法国人戏谑地说，我住在巴黎的“血液”里。
美国人以为他是住在闹市区，哦，真是好地方！
直到那个美国人在塞纳河边闲逛，才识得真相——
原来，他的住所是停泊在河边的一艘木船。
甲板上，一盆盆繁茂的植物零星地开出花朵。支起一把阳伞，摆上几张木椅，阳光未及，却温暖有余。若是在这个小小“庭院”里品上一杯红酒，其惬意也是远胜于那个卖不出一栋双层别墅而发愁的落魄者。
同样是投资了一处“养老房”，两个人的结局却不太一样，个中原因是什么？
在细碎的阳光下慢慢变老，平静地接受和渡过岁月对我们造成的伤害，恐怕这是活在这个世上最好的方式了吧！
影片着眼于巴黎的一个社会现象——投资“养老房”。买房者用便宜于市价的钱买下一栋房子的产权，但前提是要支付卖主余生的生活费。这是一个双赢的交易，但也带了一点点的赌博性质。
那个住在船舱里的法国人只等了六天，卖主就去世了。而主人公马修斯的爸爸却支付了老房子里的女人四十多年的生活费。更何况，老太太的身体状况还非常健康。马修斯是一个落魄者，有过很多次失败的婚姻，在事业上也一无所成
「I'm 90. Subtlety's not something that interests me.」
「If you do not love me, I shall not be loved.」
「Anytime anyone follows their heart, someone else gets their heart broken. There'e always detritus, always hurt, always pain. Love is a limited substance. When you give love to someone new, you have to take it away from someone old.
People like us think we've been cursed by God, but, in fact, we've been cursed by our parents. You look in the mirror, and you see an adult. But you have to look more carefully. There'e a big piece of you that never grew up. It may have grown tall, but not up. You spend your life waiting for your parents to come back and make it all right. But they don't come back. It's not all right. You have to somehow move past them. You have to somehow convince yourself that you don't need those people, because you don't.」
Love is a limited substance. When you give love to someone new, you have to take it away from someone old. My father took every ounce of love he had and dumped it in Paris. People like us think we've been cursed by God, but, in fact, we've been cursed by our parents. You look in the mirror, and you see an adult. But you have to look more carefully. There's a big piece of you that never grew up. It may have grown tall, but not up. You spend your life waiting for your parents to come back and make it all right. But they don't come back. It's not all right. You have to somehow move past them. You have to somehow convince yourself that you don't nedd those people. Because you don't.
一个居住在巴黎的92岁的法国女人，年轻时结了婚出轨了男主的父亲。
因为那时候的男主父亲还不够有钱（估计就是给不了她物质生活保障），所以法国女人依然选择了自己的婚姻。
即是男主的父亲结了婚，但是男主父亲和法国女人依然保持着婚外恋的关系。
法国女人在35岁时生下女儿，但估计那个丈夫也搞不清这个女儿到底是不是他的，所以也不是很爱这个孩子。
法国女人和男主父亲幽会时，还会带上女儿作为借口。
这个女儿在10岁的时候发现了她母亲的秘密。14岁时，她的父亲去世。
然后
可爱老女人：我们为什么爱的那么肤浅？
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